Sunday, August 3, 2008

Expectations, Relationships & Hopes..



I Hope this topic s never ending and very different all together to compare with any other topic in this blog...
Cause i believe and follow every relationships stands with some or other expectations.. and hopes too.. this s what made me survive in MUMBAI till date..

I hope none of you ll disagree what i wanted to say.. Here the first time i got little senty when i m putting few words about my learning's from few relationships...

You don't get tears on unknowns funeral,.. It s only when you have relationship with them..
Expectations starts from a mother a child only.. A mother gives birth to a child, that child gives an opportunity to that mother to feel great by loving him, and the mother does the same thing by loving and caring that child.. till that time everything s cool,
and problem arises with expectations..
Take any example of a romantic relationship breaking off..
simply you expect and keep on hopes and when things don`t turn up in your way, all the good time takes back seated...
What s the way out??
there s only one way to the keep things cool and retain relations.. Keep your expectations very clear with whomever you are dealing,
See yourselves the relationships appears to be so beautiful and long lasting..

and My personnel advice s ..

Do not ever expect from your own people.. it will only hurt...
They are delicate So.. Handle Gently...
Care for them as much as you can...
Love them as you never loved anybody...
Give maximum time where it s not possible..
Be patient, especially when you get angry,

Give nice,huge and a tight hug it s quite casual to show your love at any point of time..

Possible
SKK

10 comments:

Sophia F said...

Kya baat hai Sirji ekdum senti hogaye :):)

May be you right but my thoughts slightly differ here.....

I believe one can have a good relationship with only 2 people

1)Yourself
2)Parents

FULL STOP...... :):)
Nevertheless its very well written

SKK said...

You will agree when you ll fall for somebody.. i mean truly...

Sophia F said...

There are more chances of people falling for me rather than I falling for them :)

But if and when I do and if mythoughts change on this one...........I'll surely inform u :):)

Cheers!

Indira Rachakonda said...

its really wonderful to know about the relationships, though we spend the time with our own people but we not even think about the relationship what exactly going in between us...sometime will come to know the people even they are our own....may be sometimes we will feel bad about them or else if we found good we should feel happy and proud to have the people of our own....i feel am the luckiest person to have a great family with lots and lots of love....lol...didi

AKR said...

Its a good post on "Expectations, Relationships & Hopes"

Parvati said...

When its come to mother & child relation i totally agree with you being a mother of one kid. As i said a golden word i hv read " Child gives a birth to a mother "
Very touchy......

Indira Rachakonda said...

not to write or else to read relationships to follow and to be maintained....Indira

kajol said...

wat 2 say 1stly
wish u mny hapy returns of d day..
thoght of ritting a testi...par phir remebered abt ur blog where i hve nt rote anytink..
mr suresh kk well knwn by skk.saying abt him
he s a man who belives in values rather thn in success(as he s aware, success just cums along d values)
i also agree to wat u rplied 2 sophia
firm beliver in doing wat he can wid wat he hve, & where he s...
i aggree to wat indra said..
realitonship to b followed & to b maintained....aur tlking abt ur dis blog...in relation cums wid little of xpectations&little of hopes.....
'll rite abt it in leisure time

kajol said...

& forgt to mention a perfect pic for dis topic..
by the way whos s tht sweet little gul

M said...

Good one.